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Choosing a Spouse in Islam: A Blueprint for Success

The choice of a spouse is one of life’s most critical decisions. In Islam, this choice is not left to whims or superficial factors but guided by principles that prioritize faith, character, and long-term compatibility.

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by Abdul Wahid Stephenson
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Choosing a Spouse in Islam: A Blueprint for Success

by Abdul Wahid Stephenson

Introduction

The choice of a spouse is one of life’s most critical decisions. In Islam, this choice is not left to whims or superficial factors but guided by principles that prioritize faith, character, and long-term compatibility.

Choosing a Husband

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) advised:

“If someone comes to you whose religion and character please you, then marry him.”

Two qualities are essential:

  1. Deen (Religious Commitment): A husband with strong faith will fulfill his responsibilities to his family and treat his wife with kindness and patience.
  2. Character: Good character ensures a husband is compassionate, responsible, and respectful.

Choosing a Wife

The Prophet (ﷺ) said:

“A woman is married for four reasons: her wealth, her lineage, her beauty, and her religion. So marry the one with religion, may your hands be rubbed with dust (i.e., may you prosper).”

  1. Deen: A wife with faith will uphold her family’s best interests, even in her husband’s absence.
  2. Beauty: While subjective, physical attraction is important but should not overshadow other qualities.
  3. Lineage: A woman’s family and upbringing influence her values and parenting.
  4. Wealth: While wealth is a consideration, it should support the family, not define the relationship.

Conclusion

A successful marriage starts with the right partner. By prioritizing Deen and character, Muslims can build a home rooted in mutual respect and shared values, ensuring success in both this life and the Hereafter.



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